Here's A Nice Women For Ya....

[TheDealer]

http://www.thepittsburghchannel.com/news/3783812/detail.html?subid=22100406&qs=1;bp=t

[Bluerauder]

http://www.thepittsburghchannel.com/news/3783812/detail.html?subid=22100406&qs=1;bp=t
Didn't they have a "Dear John" law back in WW II to prevent just this kind of thing? Maybe it's time to revisit this in the interest of protecting the rights of servicemembers during extended deployments.

[MENINBLK]

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Now he really knows how she feels about him for sure. :flamer:

I'd like to really say how I feel, but I respect you guys more than this woman does her spouse.

[TripleTransAm]

We certainly don't know the full story (maybe he's abusive? Maybe he's neglected his parental duties and responsibilities even when he was home? Maybe he's used his military responsibilities as an excuse to betray his wife? Maybe....? ).

But I agree: if there wasn't any good reason for the guy to be treated this way, she definitely would deserve the award for lowlife of the year (or decade).

[Patrick]

This is really sad. Thier problems aside, this could and she be settled when he gets home. But not getting the whole story I will not judge. But whatever the circumstances are this should NOT be allowed to happen. These men and women have enough to deal with it as it is.

Patrick

[Stephen Soulsby]

I would kick her in the nuts!

[hitchhiker]

I would kick her in the nuts!

YES!



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[BillyGman]

We certainly don't know the full story (maybe he's abusive? Maybe he's neglected his parental duties and responsibilities even when he was home? Maybe he's used his military responsibilities as an excuse to betray his wife? Maybe....? ).

Or maybe she's just a dirtbag who didn't have enough loyalty to her husband to keep her panties on until he got back from the war. There I said it!!! Okay, perhaps my statement is a bit crude, but let's call it for what it is, uh? If the roles were reversed here, and it was a woman getting served w/papers while she was in Iraq, then you guys would be all over the guy in question. So let's not make excuses for this woman. If her husband was abusive, or unfaithful to her, then she shouldn't have waited until he went into Iraq to fight a war, and if there's some legitimate reason for her timing on this, then she should've had her Attorney state the real cause of all of this rather than the reason that has been used here.

[TripleTransAm]

Or maybe she's just a dirtbag who didn't have enough loyalty to her husband to keep her panties on until he got back from the war.


Exactly. That could very well be it as well, as far as we know.

[Marc]

This chick is from Fayette County, PA, an area not far from me. Its a damn near given that she's fooling around on this guy and has been doing so for some time. Never met a woman from that part of the state that didn't dump one guy for another if she thought she could make an extra 2 bucks.

[teamrope]

She reminds me of the woman who had her Husband killed when he returned from the first gulf war so she could collect the $100k servicemens life insurance and marry the guy she picked up while he was in the gulf. :mad2:

[teamrope]

If her husband was abusive, or unfaithful to her, then she shouldn't have waited until he went into Iraq to fight a war, and if there's some legitimate reason for her timing on this, then she should've had her Attorney state the real cause of all of this rather than the reason that has been used here.
My feelings exactly

[TripleTransAm]

This chick is from Fayette County, PA, an area not far from me. Its a damn near given that she's fooling around on this guy and has been doing so for some time. Never met a woman from that part of the state that didn't dump one guy for another if she thought she could make an extra 2 bucks.


:lol: :lol: :lol:
No stereotyping there... ;)

Funny, that was the first thing that crossed my mind when I first read / saw the report (her intentions, that is, not her origins). Like I said, I have no idea what's going on behind the scenes, but some folks can and will resort to anything for their personal gain. It is sad to see.

I had a similar discussion with a former co-worker who has since returned to San Diego. A young 25 years old, single, not much of a party animal but (in my opinion) drop-dead gorgeous. Bright as a supernova, too. She had an odd (to me) background: both her parents had been in previous marriages, and in BOTH cases the marriages were annulled even though there had been children in both marriages. (how in the world an annulment can result in these case, I really do not know).

Her take on marriage or "settling-down" was simple: always try to find the better 'meal-ticket' (my words). In other words, her goal was to find the best provider, with actual love being secondary in importance (if not less than secondary). Odd that we shared so many common values with regards to family and work, but we diverged so greatly on this issue. Was it a product of her family history? (although she's had a very stable family situation all her life).

Anyway, I fear the child in question here in this situation will grow up with a distorted view of the importance of family. And this will feed into whatever children she may in turn have in the future, through her eventual actions.

[BillyGman]

:lol: :lol: :lol:
Her take on marriage or "settling-down" was simple: always try to find the better 'meal-ticket' (my words). In other words, her goal was to find the best provider, with actual love being secondary in importance (if not less than secondary). Odd that we shared so many common values with regards to family and work, but we diverged so greatly on this issue. Was it a product of her family history? (although she's had a very stable family situation all her life). Steve, I believe that just as many men are prone to making the mistake of paying attention to the outward appearence of a woman only, that many women make the mistake of paying attention to only the financial succes of a prospective man in their life w/out nearly as much thought about other characteristics. What I'm saying is that I think this is a common mistake that more women make than we're usually aware of since many of them won't talk about such matters in front of men. Thus that saying : "Men look at women as SEX objects while women look at men as SUCCESS objects". I don't think that it has to be that way, but unfortunately w/most people in our society, it IS. And there are usually consequences that follow in the longrun as a result.

Anyway, I fear the child in question here in this situation will grow up with a distorted view of the importance of family. And this will feed into whatever children she may in turn have in the future, through her eventual actions.I believe you are absolutely correct, and unfortunately there are so many people who don't see that, and are simply in denial about that. And w/the turning of each generation, it just gets worse and worse. I'm speaking of the majority though. there are exceptions to that rule, although it seems like there are less and less to be found as time passes.

[TripleTransAm]

Steve, I believe that just as many men are prone to making the mistake of paying attention to the outward appearence of a woman only, that many women make the mistake of paying attention to only the financial succes of a prospective man in their life w/out nearly as much thought about other characteristics. What I'm saying is that I think this is a common mistake that more women make than we're usually aware of since many of them won't talk about such matters in front of men. Thus that saying : "Men look at women as SEX objects while women look at men as SUCCESS objects". I don't think that it has to be that way, but unfortunately w/most people in our society, it IS. And there are usually consequences that follow in the longrun as a result.
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I agree with you on this, and in fact from a biological point of view, it's pure Darwinism at work. Men are looking for the more attractive person to mate with (the sex drive is nothing more than our biological need to pass on our DNA, ensuring survival of our genetics) whereas the woman will need an adequate or superior provider. Of course, in today's level of 'civilisation', it seems to have morphed into the quote you made above replacing sex drive and providers with sex objects and success objects.

I'm not sure where things began to erode along the years, whether it was the availability of very effective birth control or the popularity of front-wheel-drive cars in North America, but it would almost seem that once you take away the biological aspect of 'family', the natural tendency seems to be to shift to a lack of family values overall. You know, "girls just wanna have fun" and "boys will be boys" and all that...

Whatever... the world is overpopulated anyway. :rolleyes:

(Hope I don't sound too stuffy in all this... I've always been rather fascinated by anthropology and the evolution of man (and woman), since we're a rather interesting and entertaining animals overall, with accent on the word 'animal' :burnout: I wonder when cavemen discovered the burnout?)

[merc406]

Sad, they both evidently needed :help: before he left and didn't seek it....Now she's tryin to be a :bandit:

[BillyGman]

Whatever... the world is overpopulated anyway. :rolleyes: U can say that again!!! Unless it's past midnight, I can't seem to drive anywhere w/out getting into a traffic tie-up of some sort. And the Marauder gets bored w/busy roads that have too much traffic!!!

(Hope I don't sound too stuffy in all this... I've always been rather fascinated by anthropology and the evolution of man (and woman), since we're a rather interesting and entertaining animals overall, with accent on the word 'animal' :burnout: I wonder when cavemen discovered the burnout?)LOL....maybe when they discoverd the Supercharger, or the big block V8!!! But I'm afraid I don't share your belief in evolution. I think that's the problem these days. Too many people accept the fact that we should behave like animals, and that's why you have people jumping from one bed to another, and soaring divorce rates, and people w/kids from three different partners. That's how animals live, and we're not animals. If all as men care about is outward beauty in a woman, then when things do get serious and they have children w/the woman in question and settle down, and then they realize that they cannot communicate w/this person they now live with, and they have completely opposite views on child rearing, then there's chaos in that household that puts the kids in an enviroment that's like a Zoo, or a jungle, and the family doesn't last either.

And the same goes for the woman who's a gold digger, or who only views men as "success" objects. She doesn't consider too many other qualities in the man in question, and then she wonders what happened when the ape doesn't come home at night, and she's stuck w/the kids alone while he goes out and drinks himself to death. Wow this thread got heavy in a hurry, uh?

[TripleTransAm]

But I'm afraid I don't share your belief in evolution. I think that's the problem these days. Too many people accept the fact that we should behave like animals,

Don't get me wrong, it's not like anthropology is supposed to promote us behaving like some animals. I think it's just a matter of making us understand why a human being does stuff that otherwise wouldn't make any sense given our 'superiority'. Let's face it: we've been in those situations, where something inside us makes us do something that is against our better judgment, and when sex is concerned, forget about it!

Along our evolution we've assembled sets of laws and guidelines (Hammurabi, 10 commandments, Internal Revenue Service, etc.) that are supposed to keep our more basic instincts in check. Thou shalt not kill (promotes the survival of the species, overall), thou shalt not commit adultery (keeps the dangerous diseases in check), thou shalt not steal (keeps the sustenance and wealth fairly distributed), etc. Even stuff like avoiding pork products in some religions is probably based on health reasons... all this has served to promote our superiority but sometimes the more basic nature takes over.



That's how animals live, and we're not animals.

Actually, that's not how all animals live. Some display family loyalty that would rival the most devout Reverend. I was on my way back from a quick to-from drive to Montpelier VT last Saturday morning and caught a radio interview with some scientist who studied the behaviour of some sort of bird. He noted that the male birds would decorate their 'nests' with colorful stuff that they gathered around, in an attempt to attract females. In fact, it's a sort of competition: the one who has more 'trinkets' or shows off more tends to get the females, and this is good for him, genetically-speaking. However, when the head showoff is away, some neighbor birds will actually come along and vandalize the nest, destroying it and in some cases stealing the stuff for their own nest. Eventually, a sort of pecking order happens: the birds will actually hold back from getting 'too flashy' in order to avoid getting picked on by everyone else.

This mirrors human behaviour, in some cases as what's seen in the mafia and gangs. You get the flashy type with all the ladies hanging off him, flaunting his wealth, but eventually if he doesn't have the endurance and strength to back that up, he eventually gets taken out by someone else. So many times it's interesting to study animal behaviour because it sometimes sheds light on our own society.




Wow this thread got heavy in a hurry, uh?

We can always go back to debating which supercharger is best. ;)

This kind of info exchange is fun for someone who is interested in hearing people's viewpoints. For instance, I'm also into Philosophy, from where that popular phrase comes: "If a ricer opens his mouth and speaks, does anybody hear him, and does anybody care?"

[Krytin]

I'm not sure where things began to erode along the years, whether it was the availability of very effective birth control or the popularity of front-wheel-drive cars in North America,

Filthy front wheel drive cars... I KNEW they were trouble right from the get-go!
ROFLMAO

[BillyGman]

yeah, blame it all on the ricers......they are the ones who made the worlds collide......

[TheDealer]

:P :cool:
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[Patrick]

:2thumbs: :rofl: :rofl: :rofl:

[TheDealer]

Patrick, glad to see you're enjoying life.

[Patrick]

Patrick, glad to see you're enjoying life.

Some days its a dog day!!!!!!!!! Going to save that one too!!!! Thank You!
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