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MikesMerc
07-10-2006, 07:06 PM
My father passed away this morning. He went in for an "overnight" procedure two weeks ago and never came home. He had his share of health problems, but he had never been hospitalized in his life. We are all still in shock.

My Dad was the "go to" man in everyone's life he touched. His family....his friends....his neighbors...they were all touched by his willingness to do anything for them. He was them most self-less man I ever knew. I'd be greatful if I could ever amount to be a fraction of the man my Dad was.

He will be deeply missed.

Hug your parents. Hug your kids. Tell them how much you love them. Enjoy every moment.

This is the hardest thing I have ever experienced in my life and I miss my Dad. I miss my best friend.

jgc61sr2002
07-10-2006, 07:09 PM
My deepest condolences. May he rest in peace.

STLR FN
07-10-2006, 07:09 PM
Mike my deepest sympathy to you and your family.

DJ

Fast4Door
07-10-2006, 07:11 PM
Mike,

I'm very sorry for your loss.

That may not bring much comfort right now, but just remember that a lot of people care about you and will be there for you.

Jerry

dwasson
07-10-2006, 07:13 PM
Mike, I'm so sorry. My thoughts are with you and your family.

Bradley G
07-10-2006, 07:19 PM
Mike, I lost my father to heart disease, while my wife Nancy, was pregnant with my only son.
Nothing prepares you for a loss this great.
Many blessings in your time of sorrow.

03marauder99vic
07-10-2006, 07:30 PM
Sorry for your loss.

JMan
07-10-2006, 07:30 PM
Mike,
My most sincere condolences. Consider the fact that your father will always be with you - trust me on this. I know that doesn't help at this time but will in the future. Remain strong for the rest of your family. They need you as much as you need them. Celebrate your father's life and relish your's with him!

God Bless,

J

tddpop
07-10-2006, 07:31 PM
Mike,

I am very sorry for your loss. Losing your father is one of the hardest things to go through. I lost my father suddenly 3 years ago to sudden cardiac arrest. It too was unexpected. All I can say is cling to your family, they provide the best comfort you can get.

mnxtrik8r
07-10-2006, 07:32 PM
I lost my father when I was 15 yrs old to heart disease. Not a day goes by that I don't wish we could of spent more time playin with cars or whatever. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Dragcity
07-10-2006, 07:38 PM
Sorry for your loss Mike. I am happy for you both he is your best friend. Always will be too. Seems we feel we never will be as great a Man as our Dads, that's respect....

Remember all the good times, .... and smile.

God Bless...

MM2004
07-10-2006, 07:39 PM
Mike,

Stay strong for your family.

I too, lost my best friend 10 years ago.

My Dad.

I will always love him and he is always with me.

Your Dad will always be with you as you with him.

Prayers to you and yours,..

Mike.

HwyCruiser
07-10-2006, 07:42 PM
Mike, my condolences for your family's loss. Be strong for them as your father would want you to.

ghost03
07-10-2006, 08:15 PM
I lost my father several years ago due to a Heart Attack and not one day goes by that I dont miss him. All you can do is keep his memory alive and remenise on all the good times you both shared together. Its not going to be easy but life does continue and Im sure that he is in a better place watching over you at this very moment proud to have you as a son. My deepest condolances

MarauderMark
07-10-2006, 08:22 PM
So sorry to hear of your loss.My deepest sympathy to you and yours.

Bigdogjim
07-10-2006, 08:44 PM
God Bless All of you!

Your Dad's gone to a better place!

My thoughts and prayers are with you!

rocknrod
07-10-2006, 08:49 PM
...Hug your parents. Hug your kids. Tell them how much you love them. Enjoy every moment.
...
I don't have any. Seriously!
Sorry to hear about yours though!

DEFYANT
07-10-2006, 08:49 PM
Geez Mike, hang in there.

Sorry for your loss.

MI2QWK4U
07-10-2006, 08:51 PM
Mike,
I am so sorry to hear this. I was praying that things would get better over the last 2 weeks. If there is anything at all Tracy and I can do for you, please let us know. Your extended family loves you buddy. Take care.

bigslim
07-10-2006, 08:52 PM
Mike, I knew something was wrong Friday when I got out and you had left. As I told you last week you can call me for anything anytime. My prayers to you and your family.

Ryans PI
07-10-2006, 09:08 PM
I am very srory to hear. My dad was in the hospital for 2 months straight before he died, last year, just before my 22nd birthday.

You are in my prayers. God Bless.

the_pack_rat
07-10-2006, 09:37 PM
Mike,

Sorry for your loss.

jobrien8
07-10-2006, 10:14 PM
Our condolences Mike. John and Barb

shakes_26
07-10-2006, 10:38 PM
Mike,

my sincere condolonces to you and your family.

Breadfan
07-10-2006, 10:40 PM
Wow :( My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I'm sorry for your loss and wish you the best as always.

hitchhiker
07-10-2006, 11:22 PM
Sorry for your loss Mike.

Hack Goby
07-10-2006, 11:53 PM
Mike ,I am so sorry for your loss.If there`s anything I can do I am here for you my friend.It`s been 16 months since I loss my Linda and there still isn`t a day that goes by I don`t think about her so I know your pain.I will pray for you.

tmac1337
07-11-2006, 02:50 AM
Mike, I am truly sorry to hear about your loss. Keep your chin up in the days ahead!

2003 MIB
07-11-2006, 03:05 AM
I'm sorry for your loss, Mike. As for the hugs, I'll make a special point of that today.

rayjay
07-11-2006, 03:13 AM
Deepest sympathy on your loss.

snowbird
07-11-2006, 03:18 AM
Mike, Sorry to heaar about this. My sympathy to you and your family.

Lowell
07-11-2006, 03:18 AM
My family extends our sympathy to your family.

O's Fan Rich
07-11-2006, 03:46 AM
Our best to all your family.
Words are never enough.

juno
07-11-2006, 04:46 AM
Mike

I am very sorry to hear about your loss. My deepest symapthy for you and your family.

Smokie
07-11-2006, 04:47 AM
Mike I understand your loss, a good father is a precious gift, keep him in your thoughts and he will continue to live in you. My prayers are with you in this difficult time.

ADE 1000
07-11-2006, 04:49 AM
Sorry to hear it. My condolences to you and your family.

RoyLPita
07-11-2006, 04:58 AM
I am sorry for your loss. Please accept my condolences for you and your family.

martyo
07-11-2006, 05:01 AM
Mike: My heart goes out to you and your family. I have been shoes and understand the emptiness that you must feel. We are all here if you need us.

Cobra25
07-11-2006, 05:03 AM
I'm sorry to hear of your Loss. My Condolences to you and your family.

seans
07-11-2006, 05:10 AM
You and your family are in my prayers.

Hotrauder
07-11-2006, 05:12 AM
Mike, Our condolences and prayers are with you and your family. Your Dad will always be with you. Hold your family close. Dennis

SID210SA
07-11-2006, 05:16 AM
My deepest sympathy goes out to you and your family.

SergntMac
07-11-2006, 05:19 AM
My father passed in 1982, and I miss him every day. In many ways, I have matured into his way of being in the world, and I try to honor his influence.

You and your family are in my prayers.

KillJoy
07-11-2006, 05:35 AM
Sorry for your loss.

KillJoy

Big D's Merc
07-11-2006, 05:40 AM
Sorry to hear about your loss.

Zack
07-11-2006, 05:42 AM
My best to you and the family.
Sorry for your loss.

Mebot
07-11-2006, 05:51 AM
My sincere sympathies to you and your family.

FiveO
07-11-2006, 05:52 AM
I'm so sorry for your loss :(

Meteorite
07-11-2006, 05:59 AM
Mike,

Sorry to hear about your Dad. My prayers will be with him and with your family at this time.

AzMarauder
07-11-2006, 06:19 AM
Mike,

I have experienced this type of loss and understand your pain. How wonderful that you had such a great realtionship with your Father. My condolences to you and your family...

Tallboy
07-11-2006, 06:26 AM
My deepest condolences, Mike.

We will raise a glass in his honor on Woodward.

ckadiddle
07-11-2006, 06:51 AM
Hug your parents. Hug your kids. Tell them how much you love them. Enjoy every moment.


You said it, Mike. I have been trying to live like that the last few years. Sorry for your loss. Reminds me that I need to call my Dad today.

Bluerauder
07-11-2006, 07:15 AM
My father passed away this morning.
Mike, my sincere condolences to you and your family. The loss of a parent is indeed a difficult and emotional event. With the help of your family and friends, you will be able to get past the sadness. He will be in my thoughts and prayers along with you and your family.

My father passed away in 1992. Not a day goes by that I don't think about him and the strength and wisdom that he imparted to me. I can only hope that I will be able to do as much for my kids and theirs.

mclemore102
07-11-2006, 07:24 AM
Mike am so sorry to hear this! You and your family is in our prayers.

TAF
07-11-2006, 09:07 AM
Very sorry to read this...my condolences to you and your family....

Marauderman
07-11-2006, 09:16 AM
AS part of our extended MM family- I too am sorry to hear of your loss-- My Dad passed in 1979 holiday car accident and like others here, we aften think back on our memories we shared with our dad's...cause we always have those memories and they will never be gone.....my prayers are with you now and to be strong ....

bigjohn
07-11-2006, 09:17 AM
My condolences Mike, very sorry to hear this.

ctrlraven
07-11-2006, 09:24 AM
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this sad time but remember now he will really be looking over your shoulder keeping his eye on you .

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MikesMerc
07-11-2006, 01:35 PM
Thank you to everyone who posted words of support here. I wasn't sure why I felt the need to post up such terrible news here, and so quickly, but it felt like the right thing to do. I desperately wanted to boldly state my feelings for my father from the highest "mountain top" I knew. I am deeply greatful to be a part of this community and for allowing me to say what I felt inside.

Many tough days lay ahead, but everyone's words of support and stories of similar situations have been very very helpful. Thank you all.

Smokie
07-11-2006, 01:51 PM
I went thru this quite recently, I tried to be strong for my mom and brother who were having a rough time dealing. I would refuse to grieve.... when I did...alone, I found relief and a measure of peace.

Is ok to hurt...it means you are human. Hang tough Mike, Javier.

MarauderTJA
07-11-2006, 02:07 PM
Truly sorry to hear of the loss of your Dad Mike.......

FastMerc
07-11-2006, 02:34 PM
Im truly sorry to hear this prayers sent,my dad had major surgery a few months back.I could have been there as well easily.God bless.

Cheeseheadbob
07-11-2006, 02:44 PM
Mike, my thoughts are with you and your family. I was never close to either of my parents. I have friends who still see their parents every day and cherish not only the love, but also the friendship. I envy them. I am trying to (and I think succeeding) develop that friendship with my two boys. I am sorry for your loss. Keep the faith.

Alan
07-11-2006, 02:56 PM
Prayers sent your way. Sorry for your loss.

jstevens
07-11-2006, 04:14 PM
Mike,
I'm very sorry to hear this as I have lost both my parents and my wife has lost her mother.

My prayers are with you.

mr.continental
07-11-2006, 08:06 PM
My deepest prayers go out to you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Jerry Barnes
07-12-2006, 08:03 AM
Mike,

I was very sorry to hear about your father. Words don't describe how I feel about your lose. I will stop by the Funeral Home on Thursday evening. As always, if you need help with anything, please let me know.

Jerry

Forenzic
07-12-2006, 11:57 AM
My condolences .....

LordVader
07-12-2006, 12:16 PM
:( Mike,
Sorry for your loss. You and your family are in our prayers. Hang tough..this too shall pass.

Jeff03
07-12-2006, 12:18 PM
Mike my deepest sympathy to you and your loved ones.

GAMike
07-12-2006, 01:27 PM
Mike
Nothing anyone can say will be of any comfort while enduring such a great loss, but know that he is probably up there now along with the like minded minion who came before him looking down on his family offering guidance and inspiration even now.

I'm not a terribly religious person, but when a good, decent person passes, it should inspire others to live in the manner that they did and carry forward the lessons learned for the next to come.

This is how I try to honor the legacies of my father, and father inlaw. Men who I am sure will welcome your father to his next life in heaven.

Hope this brings a moment of peace for you and your family.

John F. Russo
07-14-2006, 01:13 PM
It is very difficult to lose someone who has done so much for others.

God bless him for his work.

MikesMerc
07-14-2006, 02:35 PM
I want to thank everyone again for their kind words of support. As I said, they really do mean a lot to me and my family.

I layed my father to rest this morning, and so now starts the long process of learning to live without him alive in my life. The hole will never be filled, but I hope to keep him alive through my actions as I aspire to be the kind of man he was.

Thank You to Daryl, Dave, Jerry, and Lidio for coming to the services. Your attendence was very much appreciated more than you know.

Thank you all.

BTW, edited for terrible spelling. I'm still in a daze.

lotusstv
07-14-2006, 05:12 PM
Mike,

My deepest sympanthies.

Steve

sailsmen
07-14-2006, 05:18 PM
Mike,

It takes a year before you are emotionally "healed".

Our thoughts are with you and your family.

bigslim
07-14-2006, 07:46 PM
I want to thank everyone again for their kind words of support. As I said, they really do mean a lot to me and my family.

I layed my father to rest this morning, and so now starts the long process of learning to live without him alive in my life. The hole will never be filled, but I hope to keep him alive through my actions as I aspire to be the kind of man he was.

Thank You to Daryl, Dave, Jerry, and Lidio for coming to the services. Your attendence was very much appreciated more than you know.

Thank you all.

BTW, edited for terrible spelling. I'm still in a daze.
It was no problem. You are my brother and you and your family can ask of me anything, anytime.

jaywish
07-15-2006, 07:38 AM
Mike,

I am sorry for your loss. It is a great gift you were given to have a father be so important and so much of a role model for you and your family. You show him great honor in your words and your desire to emulate him.

Jay